How To Keep Your Relationship Hot: Language Of Love

Today we are going to talk about talking. That's right! Now don't get too excited just yet, I don't mean dirty talk (that will be next up). I mean good ole' communication skills. 

  8c1d0c8136f96c3f8ce60fccd964f4dbEffective communication skills are a must-have, if you want your relationship to last any longer than your mans wiener, that is.

 I know, I know it's hard to accept the possibility that we're not always right about everything. When it comes to arguments each partner will inevitably think that they, themselves are right and the other, being you, is wrong. 

 Guess what, if that's how you're going to think, than you're both wrong!! In order for any relationship to work both parties must put aside their biased ways and learn to communicate calmly. Remember to think before you speak! Ask yourself, "Is what I'm about to say going to impact my relationship negatively in the long run?" Chances are the stupid little thing that's got you so pissed you could just slap a mofo out right now, WON'T MATTER TOMORROW anyways!

 So hold back your lethal tongue and instead of lashing, speak calmly and allow your partner equal stage time to put forth their grievances. In the long run you'll be happy that you did, especially when your Tongues-snakes_5908_990x742 cuddle up next to your lover later that night, instead of crying in the rain with your suitcase like some crazy biatch who just couldn't shut up for two seconds while their partner spoke!

How To Keep Your Relationship Hot, "Fetish", "Fantasy", "Role Play", Oh My!

Here we go again! Another day on "How To Keep Your Relationship Hot". Tell me, has your partner been loving all the new sexual healing you've been giving? I'll bet they have! 

 Today I thought we could get a little crazy and tap into our childish sides with some good ole' sexual games! That's right! "fetish", " role play"," fantasy", you name it and we've got it! 

 First off, we have "role play", which is super easy (just in case you were born in the stone ages and didn't already know this!). Cd27b8a4f9199a3e52ffeee6355c764dSimply find out what your partners secret wet dream worthy role is. A nurse perhaps, maybe a teacher, or how about a cop? You get the idea, right? Now you can either simply pretend, using only your body and lovely voice to act the part. Even better though, you could head on down to your local costume shop or Wal-Mart (whatever floats your boat), and pick up an ever so lovely outfit to match your super sexy, ultra ego to be!

 Now "fetish" (depending on your partners kink level) varies greatly from relationship to relationship. Fetish could be something as wonderful as allowing your partner to kiss your feet, or suckle on your boobies! Pizap.com14177222435531 Beware though, that "fetish" could also mean whips, chains, the whole-nine-yards! Basically, give it some good hard thought(no pun intended) before venturing into the "fetish" conversation with your partner, because whatever you may learn can never be un-learned. 

  Last, but certainly not least, "fantasy!" "Fantasy" is a fun one! "Fantasy" can be anything that either partner can "fantasize" in their lust sick minds! You could be his "prisoner of love" or you two could be the only two people left behind on a tropical island. So get those imaginations burning and watch how fast your lover can become your sex puppet (I mean that quite literally, by the way).




Check out the article below for some naughty little games you two love birds could play. Don't have too much fun, or the two of you will have to spank one another!

How To Keep Your Relationship Hot, With A Sensual Massage

Ladies, ladies.. Back for more today? Well let's not waste time and dive right into another way to "Keep Your Relationship Hot", hotter than hot actually! That's right, today you're going to learn how to give your boy a sensual massage. Ooh baby, you're about to make some special mans day and then some! MassageForMen_01

Take a look at this great article which will teach you an easy-to-learn massage technique that's as sexy as it is soothing!

P.S. No need to thank me! I'm just saying.

How To Keep Your Relationship Hot, "Mans Mentality"

Get ready ladies! Today is the first of a monthly series of advise straight from the minds of men! That's right, a sneak peek into the strange world of the male brain.  Maze-in-my-mind1


Every month I will be interviewing three men, asking them the burning questions that ever woman wonders at one point or another. Finally we can get an idea of  what they've really got going on in those handsome heads of theirs.






The lucky boys of January & February, who are going to give us a front row seat at the "Mans Mentality" show are, Nicholas 22, Dexter 34, & Michael 46. 


~What quality do you find most attractive in a woman?

Dexter: "Definitely a good sense of humor!" 

Nicholas: "I  love when a woman is self-confident! She's hot and she know it"s it."

Michael: "Sense of humor is a big one for me!"

 ~What about physically? What is the first thing that you notice about a woman?

Michael: "Eyes! I love a woman with beautiful eyes!"

Nicholas: "I'll be honest, boobs! Sorry, it's true."

Dexter:" A nice smile!"

 Okay, how about turn off's. What's something about a woman that's really a turn off for you?

Nicholas: "I really hate it when you're with a girl and she's flirty with every guy around! Major turn off!"

Dexter: "A girls got to be a "good girl" in some ways! If I'm with a girl and she shows too much attention to other dudes, forget it!"

Michael: "I like a classy lady, someone who doesn't show off too much skin to other people! What's under her cloths should be all mine!'


There you have it ladies! The first glimpse into the "Mans Mentality". Be sure to check back February 29th for a more in-depth look into the minds of our three males.

How To Keep Your Relationship Hot, In The Bedroom That Is! ~Round 2~

Welcome back to another day here in the land of, "How To Keep Your Relationship Hot". First off, I would like to carry on with where we left off yesterday, "learning how to keep it hot, in the bedroom!" By now you've studied yesterdays post through & through, and have become a master at the art of good ole' oral delight, haven't you? Now it's time to learn another lusty trick that will amaze his every desire.  


Nipple. Wait, did you say nipple? That's right ladies, boys have nipples too! Let me tell you they are a widely overlooked part of male sexuality. Did you know that men's nipples have just as many nerves(pleasure receptors) as ours do? I thought not! Now that you have this top secret information, it's time to put it to good use!   150b_mens_health


  First off since your mans poor nipples have probably been neglected for so long you want to start off gentle. Once you've broke em' in a bit you will be able to tell how much pressure gets him going by his bodies reaction(even by the little sounds he probably making by now). You have nothing to loose by going for your mans "N-Zone", so go ahead and get frisky with your boys nipples! Remember licking & tongue flicking are your two best friends when it comes to nipple play! Small circles, mixed with sensual flicks to the peaks and your man will be way past the "point of no return" before you know it.

Keep Your Relationship Hot, In The Bedroom That Is!

I thought since we left off with "Sex, Sex And More Sex", this might be a great time to take a look at some naughty bedroom tricks that are sure to make your lover ache (in all the right places).

  One thing that anyone longs to see from their partner is how much they're wanted. When it comes down to sex, let your partner know how much you want them, make them believe that if you can't "have them" right here and now you'll crumble. Make it clear that they're the drug you fiend for, all along ensuring that they know your body is there's and there's alone, to do with whatever they like.


 ~ Check out this great article on how give him oral sex he'll never forget!




Check back in a while for more "mind bending" sexual how-to's 

How To Keep Your Relationship Hot ~Round 2~

Here we are again, finding ourselves sitting in front of our computers seeking out a way to rekindle the spark that our relationships have somehow lost. Well then, let's jump right into the juicy stuff because your relationship isn't getting any hotter while you're glued to your computer monitor!

 Jumping back into our list of ways to "Keep Your Relationship Hot", starting in at number three.

3.  Show That Love You Have & Show It Proud!  That's right ladies (gentlemen too!) grab your lover and plant a nice kiss on em'! Hold their hand for no good reason, run your fingers through their hair, look deep into their eyes, just plain show them that you care! 


     It's a proven fact that physical affection has a ton of benefits, besides the obvious. Physical affection releases the "feel-good" hormones in our bodies, it also lowers blood pressure, helps to relieve stress and best of all, it is associated with overall higher relationship satisfaction.


4. Sex, Sex And More Sex: That's right! You would think this one would be a no brain'er, but apparently not... Sex is about more than sex, it's about intimacy, it's about feeling wanted and desired. If you are failing to give your partner the feeling of being wanted than they will have no choice but to seek out someone else who is happy to "want" them all night long.

5-Ways-Meditation-Can-Help-You-Have-Mind-Blowing-Sex Unfortunately our lives are busy and sometimes leave us feeling too tired, or just "not in the mood", but put those feelings aside and delve passionately into frequent sexual relations with your partner. Guaranteed once you start, you'll be happy that you did! In turn your partner will feel wanted, which will make them want you all the more! 

Relationship 101

Okay, so we've all been there! That day when you wake up and say, "I think my relationship has lost it's spark!" Possibly you can relate to the heart wrenching feeling of knowing that your partner is no longer excited by your very presence. You may feel helpless to this, believing that "you've just been together too long". Well I say BS to that! Chances are if you or your partner have stayed, even though things have grown stale, that the love is not gone and can be re-ignited easily.

    Don't forget that the two of you were once so attracted to each other that you couldn't keep your hands to yourselves. You were like two teenagers left at home alone for the first time. You felt little butterflies in your tummies when you touched and you missed each other the moment that you were apart. Well these feelings have simply gone to sleep because truth is after weeks, months, or even years together the two of you have become one another's routine rather than lover. You have become "just another part of their day". 

   Now... imagine your lover comes home from work to find you, not watching the same TV show you watch every Friday night, but instead wearing nothing but a pair of crotch less, lace panties and pasties made out of whip cream (they don't have to know you're secretly recording your show on the PVR.)

   Alright, maybe you're not the "whip-cream pasty" kind of girl (or boy), but there are lots of slightly more subtle ways to make your partner drool like a dog. Let's see what we can do, shall we?


  1. Re-do Your Good Old Up-Do: Our hair dramatically shapes our appearance. Even slight changes to color, or style can make someone look totally different. Since most men out there crave excitement, and tire of the "same old" easily, a great way to get his attention is by changing your hair style. If you're nervous about what you might look like with different hair there are tons of cool apps out there which allow you see how you look with a short blonde bob, or long straight and black locks. 

~ Great Apps To Check Your Makeover Look Before Hand ~

          Now if you are too attached to your signature style, consider changing the color instead. There is no need to start sobbing, you can use a non-permanent hair dye which will wash out after a month or so, and will leave your hair the same color it was before dying it. The change, even if it's only for a month, will really bring back the lust factor in your partner. They can feel almost "naughty" like they're with someone new, only bonus for them it's you the woman they love (except your a new fiery vixen). 


~ Check out how these Hollywood hotties change with their hairstyles. ~

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2.  Switch Up Your Make-Up:  It's easy to fall into a routine of the same make-up day in and day out. Let's be real here, applying make-up is time consuming and can be difficult to master. Once you've found your "happy place", or in other words "the easiest possible" look, it's hard to stray. Mornings are chaotic and there never seems to be enough time to get ready for work, or to make the kids breakfast before sending them off to school.  Well suck-it-up ladies! No one is saying you need to go all Cybill Sheperd, switching it up 10 times on the daily!

    Instead, after work wipe off the days grime and apply a subtle, clean look before making dinner, or light some apple-cinnamon scented candles and apply lipstick to match! Remember dinner time is when the two of you are sitting, usually across from one another, staring at each other, talking to each other, looking into each others eyes. Your partner will get a much needed ego boost knowing that you have gone out of your way to look good just for them. Ego is everything! Stroke this (please don't forget to stroke other things as well) and you will have yourself a lover for life!

~ Simple is beautiful! ~

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Check back tomorrow for more great ways to spice up your relationship! I might even throw in some "naughty" tricks too.